i am so glad that i am not the only one who faces the same situation. i always make friends who end up doing this to me (mostly the ignoring situation, i mean my whole life story is forever alone). i have been looking at your art work, mainly the ones relating to Osmosis Jones and i LOVE them. keep up the good work and stay strong girl (i hope i do).
Hope! This happened to me all the time... Till I found an idiot, crazy, weird, pretty and socially akward gamer girl that, needless to say, became a sister for me! Don't panic, the world is full of assholes but also of nice, kind people like you! *hug*
I know how you feel. I went through a time where it seemed like I had tons of friends, but the moment I had a crisis in my life, most of those friends chose to give me the brush-off, rather than a shoulder to cry on or an ear to lend. Luckily for me, I did have a tiny pinch of friends who stuck by me, and I'm happy to say to this day that they still remain my very good, true, and dearest friends.
Try to remain a good friend to the people in your life, despite who you're being a good friend to, and I think in the end you'll find a few out there who you'll be happy and able to call your most trusted and dearest friends. I wish you all the best luck, and HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Finding good strong friends is very hard. But you'll get there, eventually!
I'm really lucky, after junior high, I finally got some great friends. I live with a couple of them now. And they know to leave me alone for my hermit phase (I go "alone time" a lot), but they can also come and ask me if they need help. So that's cool.
I hope people start treating you with some respect! Because it's not cool to be used like this!! And it's always nice gals/guys that get botched like this! D:
I felt like that for a long, long time. The sad part is, for as easy as it is to tell who your friends aren't, it takes a long time to find and/or figure out who your friends are. But don't give up! Being kind is a good thing, so long as you don't let people walk all over you, and in time being kind pays off.
The internet is a very, very hard place to make true friends, hon... we've all had experiences with those people you listed. It's not you, it's just sad reality. Just don't rush into friendships, keep things loose... You're gonna be fine <3
Awww, sweetie. I wish I was there, so I could hug you. I know the feeling a lot, specially the venting bit because I tend to be the listener in my circle of friends. I hope you feel better soon and find some awesome friends whom don't turn their back on you. *hugs*
A mi me pasa algo parecido, suelo poner demasiadas esperanzas en algunas personas cuando tengo algo común con ellas, simplemente por eso, ves que les das todo pero al final se decantan por otra persona y ni siquiera se paran a pensar el daño que te pueden hacer. Como diria yo de manera ordinaria "me parto el culo por ellas". Al final los qe son mis mejores amigos son los que tienen menos en común conmigo.
Pero bueno, yo te dire que no pierdas las esperanzas, hay muy buenas personas por ahi dispuestas a ser tus amigas
I totally understand how that is. Honestly, I'm just like that, I forgive too easily, but go back to them. A really awful thing happened to me two summers ago where my friend just exploded at me while we were talking and she said she was tired of me and we just stopped our friendship. I'm hoping you find true friends. I would like to be one of your friends! I wish you luck!
I'm actually but I'm too lazy to log out of my husband's account. I can TOTALLY relate to this. I ... have 'friends'... but honestly, I think they all secretly hate me or something. I spend more time alone or at home with my husband because of *points to your picture* all of those reasons.
I think your being a little hard on yourself. Its not stupid to want to trust and have people around. Bad friends are a part of everyones life and we all run into them, I don't believe it for a second that you're stupid. Just trusting and and loving-thats not a bad thing. More people should be like that