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Haters are gonna hate



 


Some people in their lives will have haters stalk them ,send them hate mail,


make their friends stab them in their backs, and make others hate them with their lies, pretty much try to hurt them in any possible way that they can...



If this sounds like you, well then listen up your not alone,


around the world there are people like us that seem to get hate all the time and


enemies,,, , why do you get them and what can you do?



 


Well first of all we get haters for these reasons


1) We have a talent


2) you're a people person


3) others like you


4) Your life is successful


5) you feel good about yourself


And  last but not least


6) You have something they want



That is pretty much the summary of why we get haters….



Most of the time, it is best to ignore, after all there will always be people who will envy you.



Unfortunately, when you get a pro hater, in other words a hater that really hates your guts and has the evil skills of making you miserable, that person will not just stop by sending indirect insults and anon hate.


They will turn your friends against you. Will put people that you don't even know that well against you… they will always act like the victim, and lie about something that you did or said… constantly.


They just want to see you rot, and burn in hell…. That's it…



They will try to take what made you happy… and sometimes they do, and when they do… trust me, it's not over just because they got what they wanted… no, life isn't that easy… they will rub it in your face and be over protective, because they doubt themselves so much that they can't risk, you taking  back what they stole…  So what do those evil pro haters do… well in a simple phrase



If they see you happy, they will try to destroy you.  Because they can't bare to see someone being better then them



Now don't get me wrong, that doesn't mean that we are extra special then every one else, because everybody is different, with own special qualities.



But we are better then these guys, because they doubt themselves so much, that instead of causing good, and trying to help other people, instead they see happy talented folks, and hate them, because their just too lazy or what ever, to want to be better people themselves…. So they  become haters, after all that is easier than being nice and successful in life.



So what can you do to fight back….?



To be honest… nothing



Because if you try to fight to prove them wrong, others will point at you as EVIL….


That hater is very good at lying and now almost everyone who knew is against you…. Anything you do to try to prove them wrong will add on to their lies and make you look the hater.



The solution is hard and takes time,


When you have such a professional hater, the best thing to do is continue to be happy.



And I know your saying how can I be happy? When others around me hate so much for no truthful reason, when there's rumors of me that are based on lies. The feeling of walking into a room, and have other stare at you like some sort of evil freak.



It is hard, but not impossible.



If you continue to be happy, treating other people well. You know the golden rule, others will eventually notice, they will be like, "hey wait a minute, so and so just said that this person was evil and hurtful, but their always nice, I see how they treat others how they have their skills and so positive… this sounds fishy.."



And in time the hater will blow up in their own little lies… and when you see that it will be awesome.



Here's another thing thought, haters seek haters,  so even if  the answer in time does come out, there will be some folks that will still look at you like trash… and will try to repeat the cycle..



But  don't feel bad about it…. Because the reason they do that is because  you my dear  have something that they want and simply cannot have, ever.


Even if they take what you held precious, it will never be theirs because they stole it, they will never have that self confidence that they earned it.



….and you do.



So don't worry, haters will there,


Just remember you have something many want. And you my dear are better then them.

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Mazzeelia Featured By Owner Jul 15, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
A long time ago we were picking out Egyptian gods and goddess names for school wax museum and my friend chose nut and I chose Tefnut and everyone was laughing their heads off and called me a guy cause it sounded like tuffnut and I just got all embarrassed and  didn't want to be tefnut anymore. But later I realized that it was actually pretty cool 
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xXOctaviaX Featured By Owner Dec 29, 2013
This reminds me of my time at a christian school.
I went to a christian school to find god.
what did i find?
60 gay squealing kids bulliing me in gods name.
1 year later...
whooped 12 of their asses.
all below the neck
they begged for mercy
never gave em it.
made sure they kept their traps shut.
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dishwasher1910 Featured By Owner Jul 27, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i dont have a hater that goes all the way to a personal level ,but i dislike very very much people who hate other people over political stuff , you know like your country did this and you are this and that, you're a dirty commie , you're capitalist pig,...etc .(especially those who keep spamming about it every time and especially on this site) . its really sad to see people like that , even if they are just stupid trolls that have nothing better to do.
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pyrusmerlyn Featured By Owner Jul 4, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
oh well theere are assfull of people who hate me cause i don't look old enought or just cause i,m not like then who steal or drink acohol or smoke or get knocked up or be stupid or waste my moms money :iconsadplz:
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KSoldier Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
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Team4Taken Featured By Owner Dec 11, 2012  Professional General Artist
Well said... i've never really had a hater, i guess i'm a bit lucky in that aspect, only the usual, people that underestimate your work or career and the charging/payment issues being a freelancer with tough clients... but never a hater the way you describe it. I feel bad for people who have the need to destroy something just because they don't like it or envy it, close minded freaks that enjoy doing the wrong. You have a solid point there: "Do nothing, just be yourself, ignore them, be happy and the truth will eventually pop out." It makes me remember a quote from Mark Twain: "Do not argue with an idiot, he will drag you down to his level and beat you with experience." But as artists, the best way to keep haters away, is to stand together, inside a comunity and cheer each other up. Thank you for sahring your words, it was really inspiring. =')
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OzzMena Featured By Owner Dec 7, 2012  Professional Interface Designer
Beauty ~
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oasiswinds Featured By Owner Dec 8, 2012
:heart:
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FatedRedemption Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2012
This whole thing basically fits my recent situation PERFECTLY
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SuperBuu126 Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2012
nice i watch ur youtube account and drew damn fast
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