Haters are gonna hate
Some people in their lives will have haters stalk them ,send them hate mail,
make their friends stab them in their backs, and make others hate them with their lies, pretty much try to hurt them in any possible way that they can...
If this sounds like you, well then listen up your not alone,
around the world there are people like us that seem to get hate all the time and
enemies,,, , why do you get them and what can you do?
Well first of all we get haters for these reasons
1) We have a talent
2) you're a people person
3) others like you
4) Your life is successful
5) you feel good about yourself
And last but not least
6) You have something they want
That is pretty much the summary of why we get haters….
Most of the time, it is best to ignore, after all there will always be people who will envy you.
Unfortunately, when you get a pro hater, in other words a hater that really hates your guts and has the evil skills of making you miserable, that person will not just stop by sending indirect insults and anon hate.
They will turn your friends against you. Will put people that you don't even know that well against you… they will always act like the victim, and lie about something that you did or said… constantly.
They just want to see you rot, and burn in hell…. That's it…
They will try to take what made you happy… and sometimes they do, and when they do… trust me, it's not over just because they got what they wanted… no, life isn't that easy… they will rub it in your face and be over protective, because they doubt themselves so much that they can't risk, you taking back what they stole… So what do those evil pro haters do… well in a simple phrase
If they see you happy, they will try to destroy you. Because they can't bare to see someone being better then them
Now don't get me wrong, that doesn't mean that we are extra special then every one else, because everybody is different, with own special qualities.
But we are better then these guys, because they doubt themselves so much, that instead of causing good, and trying to help other people, instead they see happy talented folks, and hate them, because their just too lazy or what ever, to want to be better people themselves…. So they become haters, after all that is easier than being nice and successful in life.
So what can you do to fight back….?
To be honest… nothing
Because if you try to fight to prove them wrong, others will point at you as EVIL….
That hater is very good at lying and now almost everyone who knew is against you…. Anything you do to try to prove them wrong will add on to their lies and make you look the hater.
The solution is hard and takes time,
When you have such a professional hater, the best thing to do is continue to be happy.
And I know your saying how can I be happy? When others around me hate so much for no truthful reason, when there's rumors of me that are based on lies. The feeling of walking into a room, and have other stare at you like some sort of evil freak.
It is hard, but not impossible.
If you continue to be happy, treating other people well. You know the golden rule, others will eventually notice, they will be like, "hey wait a minute, so and so just said that this person was evil and hurtful, but their always nice, I see how they treat others how they have their skills and so positive… this sounds fishy.."
And in time the hater will blow up in their own little lies… and when you see that it will be awesome.
Here's another thing thought, haters seek haters, so even if the answer in time does come out, there will be some folks that will still look at you like trash… and will try to repeat the cycle..
But don't feel bad about it…. Because the reason they do that is because you my dear have something that they want and simply cannot have, ever.
Even if they take what you held precious, it will never be theirs because they stole it, they will never have that self confidence that they earned it.
….and you do.
So don't worry, haters will there,
Just remember you have something many want. And you my dear are better then them.</SPAN>