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Haters are gonna hate



 


Some people in their lives will have haters stalk them ,send them hate mail,


make their friends stab them in their backs, and make others hate them with their lies, pretty much try to hurt them in any possible way that they can...



If this sounds like you, well then listen up your not alone,


around the world there are people like us that seem to get hate all the time and


enemies,,, , why do you get them and what can you do?



 


Well first of all we get haters for these reasons


1) We have a talent


2) you're a people person


3) others like you


4) Your life is successful


5) you feel good about yourself


And  last but not least


6) You have something they want



That is pretty much the summary of why we get haters….



Most of the time, it is best to ignore, after all there will always be people who will envy you.



Unfortunately, when you get a pro hater, in other words a hater that really hates your guts and has the evil skills of making you miserable, that person will not just stop by sending indirect insults and anon hate.


They will turn your friends against you. Will put people that you don't even know that well against you… they will always act like the victim, and lie about something that you did or said… constantly.


They just want to see you rot, and burn in hell…. That's it…



They will try to take what made you happy… and sometimes they do, and when they do… trust me, it's not over just because they got what they wanted… no, life isn't that easy… they will rub it in your face and be over protective, because they doubt themselves so much that they can't risk, you taking  back what they stole…  So what do those evil pro haters do… well in a simple phrase



If they see you happy, they will try to destroy you.  Because they can't bare to see someone being better then them



Now don't get me wrong, that doesn't mean that we are extra special then every one else, because everybody is different, with own special qualities.



But we are better then these guys, because they doubt themselves so much, that instead of causing good, and trying to help other people, instead they see happy talented folks, and hate them, because their just too lazy or what ever, to want to be better people themselves…. So they  become haters, after all that is easier than being nice and successful in life.



So what can you do to fight back….?



To be honest… nothing



Because if you try to fight to prove them wrong, others will point at you as EVIL….


That hater is very good at lying and now almost everyone who knew is against you…. Anything you do to try to prove them wrong will add on to their lies and make you look the hater.



The solution is hard and takes time,


When you have such a professional hater, the best thing to do is continue to be happy.



And I know your saying how can I be happy? When others around me hate so much for no truthful reason, when there's rumors of me that are based on lies. The feeling of walking into a room, and have other stare at you like some sort of evil freak.



It is hard, but not impossible.



If you continue to be happy, treating other people well. You know the golden rule, others will eventually notice, they will be like, "hey wait a minute, so and so just said that this person was evil and hurtful, but their always nice, I see how they treat others how they have their skills and so positive… this sounds fishy.."



And in time the hater will blow up in their own little lies… and when you see that it will be awesome.



Here's another thing thought, haters seek haters,  so even if  the answer in time does come out, there will be some folks that will still look at you like trash… and will try to repeat the cycle..



But  don't feel bad about it…. Because the reason they do that is because  you my dear  have something that they want and simply cannot have, ever.


Even if they take what you held precious, it will never be theirs because they stole it, they will never have that self confidence that they earned it.



….and you do.



So don't worry, haters will there,


Just remember you have something many want. And you my dear are better then them.

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Mazzeelia Featured By Owner Jul 15, 2014
A long time ago we were picking out Egyptian gods and goddess names for school wax museum and my friend chose nut and I chose Tefnut and everyone was laughing their heads off and called me a guy cause it sounded like tuffnut and I just got all embarrassed and  didn't want to be tefnut anymore. But later I realized that it was actually pretty cool 
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xXOctaviaX Featured By Owner Dec 29, 2013
This reminds me of my time at a christian school.
I went to a christian school to find god.
what did i find?
60 gay squealing kids bulliing me in gods name.
1 year later...
whooped 12 of their asses.
all below the neck
they begged for mercy
never gave em it.
made sure they kept their traps shut.
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dishwasher1910 Featured By Owner Jul 27, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i dont have a hater that goes all the way to a personal level ,but i dislike very very much people who hate other people over political stuff , you know like your country did this and you are this and that, you're a dirty commie , you're capitalist pig,...etc .(especially those who keep spamming about it every time and especially on this site) . its really sad to see people like that , even if they are just stupid trolls that have nothing better to do.
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pyrusmerlyn Featured By Owner Jul 4, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
oh well theere are assfull of people who hate me cause i don't look old enought or just cause i,m not like then who steal or drink acohol or smoke or get knocked up or be stupid or waste my moms money :iconsadplz:
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KSoldier Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
:clap:
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Team4Taken Featured By Owner Dec 11, 2012  Professional General Artist
Well said... i've never really had a hater, i guess i'm a bit lucky in that aspect, only the usual, people that underestimate your work or career and the charging/payment issues being a freelancer with tough clients... but never a hater the way you describe it. I feel bad for people who have the need to destroy something just because they don't like it or envy it, close minded freaks that enjoy doing the wrong. You have a solid point there: "Do nothing, just be yourself, ignore them, be happy and the truth will eventually pop out." It makes me remember a quote from Mark Twain: "Do not argue with an idiot, he will drag you down to his level and beat you with experience." But as artists, the best way to keep haters away, is to stand together, inside a comunity and cheer each other up. Thank you for sahring your words, it was really inspiring. =')
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OzzMena Featured By Owner Dec 7, 2012  Professional Interface Designer
Beauty ~
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oasiswinds Featured By Owner Dec 8, 2012  Professional General Artist
:heart:
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FatedRedemption Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2012
This whole thing basically fits my recent situation PERFECTLY
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SuperBuu126 Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2012
nice i watch ur youtube account and drew damn fast
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St-Fisch Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012
Favourite for the exquisite drawing. Poetry/Prose/anything about "Haters" isn't really my thing.
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MagnusHarvest Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
"
Well first of all we get haters for these reasons
1) We have a talent
2) you're a people person
3) others like you
4) Your life is successful
5) you feel good about yourself
And last but not least
6) You have something they want
That is pretty much the summary of why we get haters…."

Seems kinda egoistic..
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LarissaLoyd Featured By Owner Dec 17, 2012
Does it?

Why do talented people get hate then?

What I think is not mentioned here is that there are some who just like saying that your work is rubbish. For such people it wouldn't matter in what phase of developing your talent is. They will appear from the mist and tell you that you 'ain't got it'.
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Nach4ever Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012
YOU'RE ON THE POPULAR PAGE THING! And this is very nice.
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oasiswinds Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Professional General Artist
I am? oh me gosh! Thanks!
what popular page thing?
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Nach4ever Featured By Owner Dec 8, 2012
YES YOU ARE! You know, when you go on deviant art, you see all the fancy art that's really popular at the moment on the front page!
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Aderic Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012
Hey! I have a question. You wrote:

Some people in their lives will have haters stalk them ,send them hate mail,

make their friends stab them in their backs, and make others hate them with their lies, pretty much try to hurt them in any possible way that they can...

If this sounds like you, well then listen up your not alone,

The "stalk them, send them hate mail, make their friends stab them in their backs, and make others hate them with their lies, pretty much try to hurt them in any possible way that they can..." sounds like me!

Did you write this for me!?! Did you!?! :D
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oasiswinds Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Professional General Artist
ahaha, oh my, I wrote it for anyone who needed it :heart:
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:iconaderic:
Aderic Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012
Hey! I have a question. You wrote:
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Animefanatic4eva Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012
this made my day XD
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Guigonsan Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012
Being bad is actually harder, just saying. Since it goes against our nature.
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GoatQueen Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012
ho hum.
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Rodo97 Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Student General Artist
now there are heaters in deviantart too?!?
Haters, haters everywhere...
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HitTheBrakes Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012
First of all, 'Haters' is an internet term founded by Reddit. Applying that to Actual Life doesn't really make sense. When people insult you. they're just joking around (90%) As most people really have no real reason to 'hate' you. Most people are blind of the fact it's that what you DO is what makes people 'hate' you. They can say all they want, (because they have the unfortunate right too), but regardless, haters only exist on the internet. Only when they continue to do so, that's harassment, not 'hating' on. Good picture regardless.
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Keali Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
That can be very true.

In real life, haters would probably be called bullies, either of the physical kind, or the ones that spreads lies behind your back.

I guess with the changing times, it's just been easier to call bullies by another name. But in the end, they're just bullies.
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Potato-Priestess Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012
Indeed, haters gonna hate. Just let them hate all they want - sometime, they'll die out of insults.
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GiantPurpleCat Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Student Filmographer
Nice! :la:
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santosxlr Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
The only hate I got is from halo reach, one guy send me a message saying just die. It was weird but funny
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SpindleWinter Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
...I thought the picture was going to be bigger. I guess it says it's Literature somewhere and I just didn't pay attention. >__>'
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oasiswinds Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Professional General Artist
MMM, I'll upload a bigger picture later
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TheAmatuer41 Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Student General Artist
I loved the strokes you made...it made a good affect on your potrait.....
And as for the haters....it might as well be best to ignore them....sometimes their either the type who are way too open with what they say or somehow they just want to put someone down to boost their own ego.
Yet in the end, they'll realize their just putting themselves down....
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Mistiqarts Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Professional Digital Artist
I stil dont get any haters, and I feel blessed ause of that, I ignore the few petty little ones, and I hope you dont get them either cause youre too sweet ;)
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oasiswinds Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Professional General Artist
ahahah~! Thanks honey! :glomp:
Oy so can I buy your Manga Online now? or not yet?
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Mistiqarts Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Professional Digital Artist
What manga hon xD?
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oasiswinds Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Professional General Artist
The mugen one your working on *3*
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Mistiqarts Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2012  Professional Digital Artist
LOL well its free atm xD but maybe one day we might make atleast one decent 200 page chapter, if I get any free time *faints* Until then , THANK YOU!! for thinking my art is worthyy!! (it gets sloppier by the second ><)
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shellpresto Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
I actually faved this because I liked the little drawing at the top.... but when I saw that it was a prose entry I read it... and it's a very good and valid point. Best not to waste your time on haters, and, like you said, just focus on being happy.
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EyesDownHero Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012
Sorry about all that going on below, I had to say something. Your intentions were only good, and your message is a beautiful one.

I was lucky back then that I was a fairly oblivious child - I was almost incapable of caring. Ignorance is bliss I guess.

I hope that one day our culture can realize that there are no divisions between people. It pains me to have to quote High School Musical, but we are all in this together. Thank you for taking the time to say all this.
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oasiswinds Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Professional General Artist
ahahaha~! Don't worry about it!
Your such a sweetheart! Thank you! :heart:
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DLowell Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Hmm. I don't agree with this entirely.

Sometimes it is jealousy as you said but it could also be a lack of understanding or other reasons.

When "haters" see something they don't understand, their first instinct is to condemn it. They don't try to understand it. They come up with their own assumptions and believe them to be correct, even if they don't have solid proof.

Haters can also be arrogant, bullshitters and only interested in furthering their own image regardless of how they feel about their target. When haters first get popularity or praise by putting people down even though they know it is "wrong" to put other people down, the praise and/or popularity eventually outweighs the guilt to the point that the guilt is just a tiny speck in the back of their mind as they continue to “attack and target” people.

In Frankfurt's "On Bullshit" essay, he defines a theory of bullshit, defining the concept and analyzing its applications. Bullshit can either be true or false but bullshitters aim primarily to impress and persuade their audiences, and in general are unconcerned with the truth or falsehood of their statements (it is because of this that Frankfurt concedes that "the bullshitter is faking things", but that "this does not necessarily mean he gets them wrong"). While liars need to know the truth to better conceal it, bullshitters, interested solely in advancing their own agendas, have no use for the truth. Thus, Frankfurt claims, "...bullshit is a greater enemy of the truth than lies are"
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HelloAxi Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
I disagree as well. In my experience with that term it is normally used when someone is trying to get someone else to stop being annoying. "hater's gonna hate" has been said to me before when I was telling someone to "Shut the hell up" after he started being being directly disobedient to a teacher at my school. Often times the people who believe they have haters are the people who end up being assholes.
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EyesDownHero Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012
This isn't about the catchphrase, it's about when someone decides to torture another emotionally for no apparent reason. "Haters are Gonna Hate" is just the writer's way of helping the audience remember.
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HelloAxi Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
Torture is a bit excessive. I understand what you mean. It seems a bit flimsy to me because of it's more common use.
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TheArtistyk Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
That was so great, really wish I knew this earlier~ :heart: Great job, it really made my day!
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oasiswinds Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Professional General Artist
your welcome, thank you for reading! :la:
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TheArtistyk Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:hug:
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day79 Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Professional Writer
Your punctuation and grammar is absolutely terrible.
Who cares?!? This is awesome! :iconsupertighthugplz:
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oasiswinds Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Professional General Artist
ahaha~! Thanks!
I know I am horrible, I would starve as a writer!
ahahahahahahhah! :la:
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defhermann Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012   General Artist
in conclusion what you want to say is Lovers are Gonna Love :iconimhappy:
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oasiswinds Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Professional General Artist
ahah! Yeah
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